Anonymous asked: I obviously don't know the real you, 'just' the Tumblr-you. But maybe you can give me an advice. Or only listen. I know you are married and that we are about the same age. My struggle is that I have been single for such a long time and I hate it. I am painfully shy and could never just walk up to a guy. It's not that I am chasing a relationship but it would be so nice to have someone who loves me. Or at least like me enough to have sex with me. I don't know. Sorry for rambling, I guess (1/2)

(2/2) it’s not a question after all. Not sure how you could help me. Sorry, I shouldn’t have sent anything. You don’t need to answer to it. Sorry.

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hm. well thanks for coming to me :) have you tried meeting someone online? i find that meeting people online is a really good option for introverted people as it allows you to talk to someone and get to know them upfront without the anxiety of being face-to-face? my husband and i actually met online and i actually know 4 other couples in real life that met online and are now married. i actually meet a lot of my friends online because i’m so shit at making friends in person, lol. another option maybe(?): having a friend set you up with someone and have a double date? i’ve never done this so i don’t know how well it works, lol. also, have a wing(wo)man? do you happen to have an outgoing friend you could hang out with? omg, i feel like these are horrible ideas, i’m sorry, lol. but feel free to talk at me anytime! you could come off anon, no judgment!! then we could talk privately :)